It’s a hunger for one thing prohibited which has had swelled to very nearly unmanageable proportions as a result of ongoing and home regarding want.
God made us to have actual desires. Without them, His demand to “go out and multiply” wouldn’t posses obtained very far. And contrary to public opinion, the Bible’s discourse on lust does not imply that any task (holding arms, hugging, etc.) that promotes intimate attraction is out of bounds.
The will is maybe not incorrect, but we’re told to discipline our anatomical bodies and get power over our needs:
“But I discipline my own body and ensure that it it is managed, lest after preaching to others we myself personally ought to be disqualified.” (1 Corinthians 9:27)