aˆ?Some of the women are also partnered, with a busy husband; the lady ultimately ends up shopping for someone younger with a lot fewer responsibilities. More ladies are merely unpleasant that at their unique old age, they may not be partnered so they have actually specific specifications, plus they become attracting youthful men that happen to be in need of cash or any guarantees they may promote,aˆ? Shyaka claims.
Alex Kabera offers exactly the same see, saying that internet dating elderly ladies is one thing that need to be frowned upon by culture. He calls they shameless because he marvels the reason why a woman is interested in a boy match to be her child to start with.
For 35-year-old Aline Iradukunda, matchmaking a younger man isn’t at all shameful. aˆ?First of all one cannot simply control the way they feel, one’s heart desires exactly what it wants. When it drops for a 21-year-old, so whether. We donaˆ™t see any issue with this. The sweetest most important factor of this will be that a younger chap respects your more because the guy knows that you really have extra experience in lives than he’s,aˆ? she brings.
However, 24-year-old Maureen Katushabe was of this view that when men is actually young, he may not ready for a life threatening relationship, which means he might finish wasting your time.